INTENSITY OF YOUR ASKING MANIFEST WHAT YOU WANT AND WHAT U DO NOT WANT

in your life. Consequently, two type of things show up in your life 1) What you really, really, really want and 2) What you really, really, really do not want! Thus, if you are NOT strongly for or against something, it is less likely to show up in your life. The key to manifesting the things you want is thus having intense passion for all the things that you want, while at the same time giving up all resistance towards the things that you do not want.
You cannot fly by thinking of staying on the ground. You cannot swim by thinking of drowning. You cannot save money by thinking about all things you want to buy. You cannot lose weight by thinking of eating high calorie foods. You cannot create good health by thinking of all the ways you can get sick. You cannot be a topper in school by thinking of getting failing grades. In the same way, you can never create a happy life by consistently thinking of things that are making you feel bad. If you want to create a happy life, your thoughts need to be shift from things that make you feel bad to things that make you consistently feel good.